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Anal Sex Positions & Tips - The truth is all kinds of people from all different sexual backgrounds get into the joys of butt sex. And for good reason: it feels good. The anus and the rectum are sensitive areas. There are a wealth of muscles and nerve endings around the anus and the right kind of touch can feel fantastic. All men have a prostate gland that can be reached through the rectum. Many men have orgasms just from pressure on the prostate. A woman's G-spot can also be stimulated indirectly through anal play as well.This how-to deals primarily with anal masturbation. It’s nice to experiment alone first so you can control the pace of your explorations. However, you are most welcome to try this with a partner as well, just go slowly and communicate your desires and reactions to your partner. Check out our anal sex how to, which is geared more toward partner play. Anal sex should not hurt. If it hurts, that's your body telling you to back off. Remember this butt mantra: "relaxation, lubrication, communication" and you should be happily enjoying butt sex in no time.

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There are some psychological factors to consider as well. Some people find it exciting because they are doing something dirty and taboo. Some women have told me that they get pleasure from knowing that they are pleasing their partner.

Men enjoy anal sex because the anus is much tighter than the vagina. In addition, some men enjoy being penetrated themselves by their partner, and I'm not talking about gay men, I'm talking about straight men. The men's g-spot (the prostate) is located within a few inches from the anal opening. When the prostate is massaged right (by the use of fingers, a penis, dildo, vibrator, etc.), it can feel very good and even induce an orgasm.

This is why men find having their anus stimulated so pleasurable as well. In fact, many men report that prostrate stimulation during a oral sex can give them the most intense orgasm they have ever had, sometimes leading to experimentation with further anal exploration. In many cases, this experimentation will culminate with full-on penetration by their female partner!

In fact, I read the result of a survey about 7 years ago that was done by Good Vibes of their customers, which showed that about 46% to 52% of strap-ons are purchased be heterosexual couples to be used by the female on their male partners. Since then, I’ve read another two more recent surveys by other researchers, that show similar findings. For what I understand, that type of practice is on the rise. At least that's what some "experts" are saying. I think that it's a combination of factors, more couples are experimenting with that type of activity, but I think that more couples are being open about it as well.

Anal Sex Tips

Preparing for Sex To get ready for anal sex, the first thing the receiver needs to do is relax. A hot bath or a massage beforehand is always a good idea to get prepared.

Start Slowly Because there is a very fine line between pain and pleasure during anal sex, we suggest that you begin your anal explorations very slowly and proceed at a leisurely pace that will allow to experience and appreciate each level of insertion.

Proper Lubrication More so than in any other form of sex, proper lubrication is essential in the enjoyment of anal sex. Every time you insert anything into the anus, from a finger to a penis, you're likely to tear tissue walls along the sides (much like you do to the inside of your mouth every time you brush your teeth).

Male Prostate Stimulation Though many men are reluctant to admit it, most find some sort of anal stimulation to be erotically stimulating. Even non-gay men report that inserting a finger or butt plug into the anus during sex causes incredible, throbbing orgasms.

Anal Orgasm A small percentage of men and women can achieve actual orgasm through exclusive anal stimulation (ie., anal stimulation alone). Though many men and women enjoy and take great pleasure in anal stimulation, it is most often in conjunction with normal sexual activities, the orgasm is simply heightened by anal sex.

Combination Sex Most people find that anal sex is a tremendous tool to enhance their regular sex activities. In a majority of cases, the actual anal sex is used in conjunction with a variety of other sexual activities and positions.

The Best Anal Position Have the receiving parther lie on their back with their knees in the air. The inserting parther should kneel or lie facing the receiving parner and insert at an angle that is comfortable to both. In this position, the receiving partner can relax several muscles necessary for pleasurable anal sex.

Anal Sex Positions

Doggie Style Probably the most commonly thought of anal sex position is "doggie style", where the receiving partner kneels on all fours and the inserting partner approaches from the rear. Though this is the most common anal position, it's not necessarily the most comfortable or the best beginner position, as the position of the receiving partner tends to tighten up their anus.

Flying Doggie A variation of the popular doggie style position in which the giver stands behind the receiver (instead of kneeling) and places their feet outside the legs of the receiver. You'll find that the giver will be positioned higher and will be inserting into the anus in a more downward fashion (you're almost in mid-leap if you were playing leapfrog).

Missionary The standard missionary style position (man on top, partner on bottom) is actually also the best beginner position for anal sex, as it allows the receiver to fully relax the anus, making penetration much easier.

Anal Drop This position puts the receiver on top and the giver on the bottom. You might think that this is the best beginner position, since it gives the receiver control over how much - how fast, but being on top actually causes the receiver to involuntarily tighten up the anus, making penetration difficult.

Double Penetration Available only to women as a receiver, the art of double penetration can bring extreme pleasure to the woman. Because the anus is highly sensitive and there are many shared sexual nerve endings between the walls of the vagina and the anus, simultaneous stimulation can be quite erotic.

Side Anal Another good beginner position is side anal, where the receiver lays on their side and the giver approaches from the rear. The receiver can relax the anus and the giver can easily access the entire anal area.

Kama Sutra Anal The Kama Sutra is an ancient text that teaches us to how to maximize our pleasure during lovemaking. It also teaches that anal sex is not "taboo" or forbidden. Rather, anal sex is looked upon as a key to releasing certain sexual and physical energies.

Wheel Barrel In this position, the giver approaches the receiver from behind, similar to doggie stye, but lifts the receiver's legs into the air. The receiver must support themselves with their arms only or lay flat on a bed or chair.

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Dr Lori,

I am a 29 married to a 26 year old woman. There has been some difficulty trying to figure out what satisfies my wife, she is very uncomfortable talking about sex, has admitted to having no sex drive. I do not consider myself crazy to want sex more than 2-3 times a month. I don't have to have it everyday, but a couple times a week would be great. A change of positions would be great, there is only one place my wife will have sex, the bedroom, in bed, either missionary or on top. How do I get her more excited about sex? I have asked questions and I am concerned because it creates conflict when I ask if there is anything I can do to make the encounter more satisfying for her. Thank you for the reply!

Dr. Lori's Answer:

About desire…difference in sexual desire is a common concern for many couples. And difference exists for most couples in many other aspects of life as well…taste in food, hobbies, movies, music, sleep patterns, etc. However, when it comes to sexual desire,,,it’s hard not to take it personally. Realize that there are many things that can get in the way of sexual desire, such as stress, anger, and exhaustion, just to name a few. Also, it’s important to know that many women (and even some men) don’t experience sexual desire until they first become sexually aroused. And no, you’re not crazy for wanting to have sex with your wife more than 2-3- times a month, or 2-3 times a week.

I appreciate your effort in trying to learn how to satisfy your wife, but it’s likely that your wife herself may not know what she desires or likes sexually. It’s difficult (if not impossible) to know how to sexually satisfy or excite a partner who doesn’t know, or is not able or willing to communicate what they like and want. Here are some suggestions that may give your sex life and your wife’s sex drive a little “push”.

First, I recommend you focus on pleasing your wife in other ways than sexual. Romance her as you did when you began dating her (a love note, night out, small gift) and/or help her relax by helping around the house. These loving gestures will make you an even more lovable partner, can put your partner “in the mood” and may even inspire your wife to want to do more things to please you.

Then, I suggest you try to have intimate pleasurable experiences that do not include intercourse or orgasms. Massage and touch each other without the goal of sex. Just focus on loving and touching each other to create intimacy and relaxation. And don’t forget passionate kisses…

About communication…I also suggest that you use “tools” to inspire sexual discussions. Erotic and instructional sex books and/or films that you read or watch together can be wonderful tools to promote open talks about sexual likes, dislikes, and sexual fantasies. When it’s time to ask your wife what she likes, try asking her yes or no questions, or either or questions. For example, “do you like it when I kiss you this way? Or, “do you like it better when I touch you this way or that way” or here or there?

Try the above and be patient. It often only takes small changes to get your sex life back on track. If your efforts don’t seem to be working, I recommend you and your wife go see an AASECT certified sex therapist.

Dr. Lori is a licensed clinical psychologist and an American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT) certified sex therapist. We know that there are a lot of people who have questions about all kinds of sexual things, so we teamed up with Dr. Lori to answer your questions.

Experts estimate one in four straight couples have had anal sex, arguably making it the most popular of sexual taboos. Yet while many people are at the very least curious enough to try it, few go about it the right way. The result? They have a negative experience, and never do it again.In order to enjoy anal sex, couples need to have some idea of what they’re doing, and to be able to communicate with each other. Of course, talking frankly about a ding-dong in a yoo-hoo can be tough. “Our asses carry with them so much cultural baggage,” says Tristan Taormino, author of The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex For Women. “Most of us are taught at a young age that our butts are dirty, that they shouldn’t be shared with others, that they are not a source of pleasure—all of which aren’t true.”Despite that (or perhaps because of it), the idea of anal sex is often a turn-on. Men like the promise of tightness and friction, and both partners can appreciate the allure of unique physical sensations coupled with domination/submission. Think those qualities make it deviant? Maybe so, but they also make it intensely intimate. As porn star Jenna Jameson wrote of anal sex in her 2004 autobiography, “I’ve only given that up to three men, all of whom I really loved. Doing it on camera would be compromising myself.”

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I enjoy anal sex and have for many years. I can climax from it provided my husband goes slowly. The sensation is fantastic and adds to the sexual repertoire. Life is a banquet, enjoy!

I've met some women, a hand full, not a lot, that do enjoy anal sex more than vaginal sex. Other women like it but as an occasional practice instead of the norm.

The anus is rich with thousands of nerves. I read in a book written by proctologist, that said that about half the nerves in the pelvic region end around the anal area. If this nerves are stimulated properly, they can produce "extreme pleasure." On the other hand, if stimulated wrong, they can cause extreme pain. Generally the pain is caused by anal tension during sex.

I think that the women who enjoy it are women that knew themselves what they were doing or tried it the first few times with some one that knew what he was doing. Anal sex is NOT something that you can just jump into, like they make it appear in porn movies. At least not at the beginning. I've tried it with most of my ex girlfriends and all have liked it a lot.

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I’m extremely fortunate in that my lover is a sexual maestro, a magician who takes ultimate pleasure in giving me extreme pure pleasure .. sure he gets it too, we both do, but for him, giving me orgasm after orgasm drives him nuts, then when I beg I can come no more, he changes position or what he’s doing and I’m off again, it’s nothing for me to have 50 orgasms in a day, gspot orgasms, vaginal orgasms, I can come without being touched, from his words alone, from him frantically kissing and licking my ear, or kissing my clitoris rhythmically, from a damn good spanking, just from screaming AND from the most delicious anal sex imaginable!

Don’t discount anything you haven’t tried, especially if it’s only a perceived taboo that’s holding you back! You might just be missing out on the biggest orgasms of your life!

Try it, I dare you!

Anal sex IS, quite simply, AMAZING or can be providing your partner really knows what they are doing and is patient and caring and loving and yes with the use of an appropriate quantity of lube!

My lover and I have anal sex frequently, in fact it’s his preference but I have to admit .. it’s mine too now. Don’t get me wrong I love good old fashioned vaginal sex too but well ummmmm I actually get “annoyed” if anal sex is not incorporated into our loving!

We’ve experimented in every conceivable position but our preference is missionary with my legs in the air (god I love that because I can masturbate and watch him simultaneously).

It’s true there’s a fine line between pleasure and pain! The trick is to learn to relax, not tense up .. pain can actually be enjoyable .. ONCE you learn to breath through it .. perhaps masturbate during the “pain” of initial penetration (get past the head and it’s plain sailing from there!) …

trust me, the pain dissolves into pure unadulterated pleasure IF you allow it and the resulting orgasms have to be experienced to be believed

Anal Sex - How To Give Women Incredible Orgasms

It's not often that you hear about a girl who just loves anal sex. In fact, most of my brave friends who have experimented in this delicate act of carnal creativity have sworn never to repeat the awful experiences they had. Me, I was all set to join their ranks without even trying it out. I used to spend a good deal of time teasing a male friend about his own anal fantasies, wondering how anyone could find pleasure in something that sounds so painful.

Then I foolishly fell in love with an anal afficianado. Refusing to even try would have been a deal-breaker, and so I put on a brave face and announced that I was ready for a new adventure. It was, indeed, an adventure, but I was pleasantly surprised to discover that contrary to what I'd been told, the entire event turned out to be more arousing than awful.

If you're feeling as ready as you'll ever be to begin exploring all things rear related, don't be shy. Read on for some tips that will help you make your first attempt at anal exploration a journey you'll be eager to repeat.

We've all heard the snide comments about what a certain uptight person might have up their butt, but the truth is that if you're feeling anxious, the last thing you need is someone poking around up there! When you're ready to begin your anal adventures, don't jump right in. Make sure that both you and your partner in crime have enjoyed plenty of foreplay. Consider relaxing with a sexy bubble bath or fun, erotic game. Take your time exploring each other's bodies, ensuring that pleasure is the only thing on your mind.

Once you're ready to begin your adventures, the most important thing to have on hand is lube. If you want to feel every sensation, an all-purpose lubricant like AnalyseMe! Spray will suffice. Pjur is popular for sexploration since it's petroleum free and won't leave you feeling sticky the way some lubes do. If, however, you feel somewhat wary about what you're about to do, an anal lubricant may very well help to alleviate your physical and mental discomfort.

These lubes are specially designed to desensitize the nerve endings back there so that you'll feel nothing but pleasure. You can even find them in different scents, like cinnamon, and a variety of fruity flavors. With a comfortable amount of lube in place, you have even more reason to relax and enjoy your experience.

No matter what your eager lover says, you don't have to begin experimenting with something as large as his penis. There are several toys on the market that can ease you into anal play without overwhelming you. I tend to recommend these adult toys over the use of a well-lubed finger simply because they're much smoother and better designed to conform to your body. You can even experiment on your own or with your private collection of sexual products so that you have a better idea of what feels good when you start playing with your partner. A small set of anal beads or a narrow vibrator are wonderful for helping you gear up for the pleasure your lover's penis can offer.

Once you've had the opportunity to experience how wonderfully pleasurable anal sex can be, I'm sure you'll be eager to learn more. Books like The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women (also available as an instructional DVD) can give you further insight into how to get even more intense pleasure from your experiments. Whether your anal exploits turn into an occasional treat for your partner or a regular part of your intimate relations, the key is to approach every encounter with an open mind and a willingness to have fun. You'll be pleasantly surprised at just how satisfying rear end action can be!

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